Posts Tagged ‘difference’

Dotting the lines

Monday, June 10th, 2013

I can never change lanes without hearing the dreaded brrrp, brrrp of the lane dividers. When I was growing up, we called them “turtles.”

Someone told me — this might be apocryphal — that the inventor gets a royalty of a penny for each turtle. If it’s factual, that comes to $21,120,000 for all the two lane roads in America.

But the issue I have with these so-called “Botts dots” is my inability to drive between them. My father once measured them. There are six dots spaced one foot apart, separated by twenty feet of bare pavement.

That means 2/3rds of the road is bare pavement. So why is it so hard to miss the dots? It’s just a lousy lane change, so why do I usually lose the game?

The human brain is wired to aim for things we can see. We don’t see the bare pavement; we see the raised white (or yellow) dots. In addition, we’re mostly trying to fit between them at an angle. And we’re traveling anywhere between 25 and 75 miles per hour.

The odds are stacked against us — deliberately, so we’re aware of the consequences of our driving.

As a communicator, we also have to worry about the dots in our road. There are consequences for us.

The rules are changed slightly, though. We’re in charge of the bare pavement. Our job is to help people navigate between the dots. We don’t want them distracted by the brrrp, brrrp.

So often, our audiences get distracted by the “turtles,” too. They travel at high speeds. They come at things from an angle. There are just too many dots out there competing for their attention and they go where their eyes lead them. They follow the easiest path.

Even if they take careful aim at our message and its meaning — we’re doing our job perfectly — the odds are too high that they’ll hit some of the dots.

It’s a never-ending challenge to help them travel in our direction, to help them stay between the dots of our competition, life’s distractions, and their biases and perceptions.

Positive, negative

Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

It’s all in how you look at things. You can communicate the positives in your life. Or the negatives. In storytelling, both have a place.

I admit I’m often guilty of seeing the world around me as a dark and dreary place (literary cliché intended). Sometime though, it makes sense to spice things up with a bit of sunshine. A grin, even in the most down of times. A touch of laughter, such as the following anecdote:

I had a nice chat with Carl Perkins back in my days as a daily newspaper reporter. Carl was, of course, part of a group of Sam Phillips’ Sun Studios artists that included Mickey Gilley, Jerry Lee Lewis, Elvis Presley, Johnny Cash, and Waylon Jennings.

Carl told me (paraphrasing) “Sam called us together and said ‘boys, I’ve got enough money to promote one of you to a big label. After that, we’ll have enough to promote the rest of you. So I want each of you to draw one of these straws. ”

Then Carl grinned at me. “Obviously, I didn’t draw the long straw.”

He got his shot at stardom, true. Had a great career and made a lot of people smile and tap their toes. Got his name in bright lights — or I might not have had the chance to talk to him.

But Elvis was the big star. Elvis got the first shot at fame. Elvis raked in the royalties from songs, albums, movies, live performances filling all the major event venues, and even promotional items and toys (I had an Elvis lunchbox). Elvis this, Elvis that, Elvis had all of it.

Still, Carl set the standard for good will, good grace and genuine happiness. He winked at the world. He saw the good through the disappointment. He stepped back and didn’t complain about being left behind in the first blush of success.

“Obviously, I didn’t draw the long straw,” he said. But in the long view, I remember Carl Perkins with appreciation and generosity. He was honest. He made me laugh, and I’ll always enjoy the infectious grin.